Do You Know How To Flirt?

Becoming a Pro at the Art of Flirting with the Opposite Sex Takes Time and Practice

So you are at an event, the supermarket, or a cafe and you finally get him to notice you. He makes the effort to walk over to talk to you. Now what? How do you keep him interested? How do you start the conversation and keep it witty and enticing? Well, that is where the art of flirting comes in and this has been around for over 3,000 years. You don't have to be interesting, just complimenting.

Complimenting him on his shirt, smile, or hair is a great way to get his attention and for him to be appreciative of you. Whether you're locked in conversation, laughing, batting your eyelashes, or playing with your hair, you are sending messages to a guy. He might be standing with his head tilted slightly, leaning in towards you, or touching your arm and.... guess what? He's sending you messages, too. It's called flirting. There are underlying meanings which say, "I'm interested in you and would like to get to know you better, perhaps sexually."

Flirting makes you feel more attractive, desirable, and it's an ego boost. When you flirt with someone, they feel excited, flattered, and good about themselves. You can flirt anywhere to practice so indulge!! Flirting is great fun when done well and it's harmless. Next time you are at the gas station, car wash, or bank, kill time by fine-tuning your flirting techniques. It's a learned behavior....so practice the art.

Two things are happening when you flirt: the actual conversation and your body language. Sometimes it's not what you say, but how you say it. It's also how you smile when you say it. You are giving him a glimpse of your personality and showing your attractive characteristics. Your nods, arm touching, and eye contact are all teasing encouragements. (However, if you are not interested in him, you probably shouldn't do more than playful banter.)

However, if you are interested, flirt away and show him that you are interested in him. Ask questions and really listen to the answers. Make eye contact and ask follow up questions. "What's that like?"...."How did you handle that?"... If you are so in awe of his attractiveness and don't know what to say, don't worry. Be bold, honest and say in a flirting way, "I'm so in awe by you, you made me lose my train of thought." That just might be the best compliment he's heard all night.

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